I'll tell you why....
Learning should be something joyful, mind-stretching and rewarding. How many learners can honestly say that has consistently been their experience of learning / being taught?
I believe most teachers start out with the best intentions of facilitating learning among their students. How, then, does the gap between teachers’ intentions and learners’ experience arise?
I’m sure there are myriad reasons due to circumstances and all sorts of differing factors. The one aspect which fascinates me personally is “The Teacher” herself. Without an excellent teacher, there can seldom be joyful, mind-stretching and rewarding learning. What form that teacher takes can also be many different things – a school teacher, a relative, sibling, friend, internet tool, book, guru. Whatever, whoever.
The force which drives me to explore this gap and to work on ways of ensuring consistent, quality learning, is the fact that without it, future generations stand little chance of dealing with the global issues our world currently faces.
A cliché it may be but “Knowledge is Power” and is primarily acquired through learning. Teachers have a huge responsibility to facilitate good and thorough learning. They also face considerable barriers to doing that, both intrinsically and extrinsically. Believing that learning and development is key, my goal is to collaborate with teaching colleagues in:
· deepening our own learning,
· increasing our knowledge & skills acquisition, and
· growing our self-awareness, through experience and reflection.
No one person has all the answers; no single human can possible be the font of all knowledge. This is something many people have noticed, the more they learn, the more they realise there is still to learn. Through my own learning, I feel I have something I can share to start others off on their own journeys. At the very least, I can be a catalyst to constructive networking. Through the power of many teachers learning and sharing together, who knows how much knowledge and joyful learning may arise?
Watch this space for details of a programme designed specifically for teachers keen to learn more about themselves and discover ways of facilitating quality learning among their learners.
Sunday, 15 September 2013
Saturday, 4 May 2013
Goals vs Intentions - Chimps Knickers in a Twist.
A curious thing occurred yesterday. I had a strong emotional reaction to a video clip during a teacher development workshop in Ulm. The clip was just over 3 minutes long, well presented by a respected and admired (by many) philanthropist. He delivered his message in an entertaining, well structured, classic TED format. He had scientifically based evidence for the validity of his message. Yet I felt highly disturbed; my cage was distinctly rattled.
Derek Sivers, the accidental entrepreneur and patron of independent musicians, is compulsive viewing. What did he say which so upset my belief system?
Don't announce your plans. If you have a goal, don't talk about it.
One of the most influential things I learned from my coaching training was Nancy Kline's Thinking Environment approach, and the importance of thinking through your ideas aloud. I have seen first hand - indeed, experienced myself - the value of saying aloud what's going on in my mind. The process of explaining to another person what my intentions, dreams and wishes are, helps clarify that tricky question, "What do I want?" The starting point for setting a goal and formulating an action plan.
My concern about the message Sivers delivers in his TED talk was that it would deter people from setting a goal at all! What I discerned from the 3 minutes is that if I share my goal, I'll end up abandoning it, so what's the point in setting a goal in the first place. As a coach who focuses on helping people with their goal-setting, this was anathema to me. What do you think?
What I now think is that my Chimp was enraged by what it felt went against the Chimp's view of the world. Even at the time, I was aware of a quiet voice in my brain pointing out the validity of Siver's point. I have experienced instances of social reality where the feeling of satisfaction from merely mentioning my "goal" was enough and I didn't work on my "goal" anymore.
However, in full Chimp mode, I allowed my indignation to run away with me and prevent me from acknowledging the truth of the matter.
Now applying my Human brain thinking, I can separate emotion from reality. For me, the issue lies in the difference between what a "goal" is and what my "intention" to do something is. By opening his talk with the word "goal" when in effect he was talking about people's dreams, wishes, intentions, caused - for me - a huge degree of incongruity. Hence my Chimp was aroused.
Fortunately, in his blog on the same topic, he uses the - for me - correct terminology! He ends with this statement:
It may seem unnatural to keep your intentions and plans private, but try it. If you do tell a friend, make sure not to say it as a satisfaction (“I've joined a gym and bought running shoes. I'm going to do it!”), but as dissatisfaction (“I want to lose 20 pounds, so kick my ass if I don't, OK?”)
Now that I - and my Chimp - can live with!.
Derek Sivers, the accidental entrepreneur and patron of independent musicians, is compulsive viewing. What did he say which so upset my belief system?
Don't announce your plans. If you have a goal, don't talk about it.
One of the most influential things I learned from my coaching training was Nancy Kline's Thinking Environment approach, and the importance of thinking through your ideas aloud. I have seen first hand - indeed, experienced myself - the value of saying aloud what's going on in my mind. The process of explaining to another person what my intentions, dreams and wishes are, helps clarify that tricky question, "What do I want?" The starting point for setting a goal and formulating an action plan.
My concern about the message Sivers delivers in his TED talk was that it would deter people from setting a goal at all! What I discerned from the 3 minutes is that if I share my goal, I'll end up abandoning it, so what's the point in setting a goal in the first place. As a coach who focuses on helping people with their goal-setting, this was anathema to me. What do you think?
What I now think is that my Chimp was enraged by what it felt went against the Chimp's view of the world. Even at the time, I was aware of a quiet voice in my brain pointing out the validity of Siver's point. I have experienced instances of social reality where the feeling of satisfaction from merely mentioning my "goal" was enough and I didn't work on my "goal" anymore.
However, in full Chimp mode, I allowed my indignation to run away with me and prevent me from acknowledging the truth of the matter.
Now applying my Human brain thinking, I can separate emotion from reality. For me, the issue lies in the difference between what a "goal" is and what my "intention" to do something is. By opening his talk with the word "goal" when in effect he was talking about people's dreams, wishes, intentions, caused - for me - a huge degree of incongruity. Hence my Chimp was aroused.
Fortunately, in his blog on the same topic, he uses the - for me - correct terminology! He ends with this statement:
It may seem unnatural to keep your intentions and plans private, but try it. If you do tell a friend, make sure not to say it as a satisfaction (“I've joined a gym and bought running shoes. I'm going to do it!”), but as dissatisfaction (“I want to lose 20 pounds, so kick my ass if I don't, OK?”)
Now that I - and my Chimp - can live with!.
Friday, 12 April 2013
Self-Coaching Inside & Outside the Classroom
With this post, I want to extend many thanks to those who attended my workshop on Tuesday at the IATEFL Conference in Liverpool. After weeks of nervous anticipation, I was happy to have a group of open-minded, warm people in the audience.
If you weren't able to attend, I'll talk a little of what it was about.
My intention was to share some of what I am currently learning from the world of coaching. As a teacher, it has been extremely insightful and helpful to discover ways of relating better to my students, in particular through the eyes of a Thinking Environment. Equally important are the ideas, tools and skills for self-coaching. Learning to pay careful attention to what I do and say; being mindful of my environment and reflective of my practice.
As well as Nancy Kline's Thinking Environment (thanks to those of you who pointed out the incorrect spelling of Kline on my slides! Apologies to Ms Kline for my oversight), I also introduced Dr Steve Peter's Chimp Paradox Model. What I learnt from this was a total eye-opener for me. To understand how different parts of the human brain operate helped me understand my own behaviour better as well as that of my students.
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Human Brain - the unscientific version |
Understanding how my Chimp operates, I understand why I feel dis-satisfied with my performance. As is often the way, I had a picture and soundtrack in mind for the workshop. Reality didn't quite match expectations. My Chimp's need for perfection wasn't met. Subsequently, it is niggling at me for letting it down.
Fortunately, my Human Brain is good at managing the Chimp. I am using the truth and facts of the matter: overall the workshop went well. The audience participated, listened and proactively showed interest in the handouts. I maintained an upbeat, consistent flow and finished on time! In the grand scheme of things, my session was one of over 500 and wasn't a case of life-and-death. I met my goal of presenting at an international conference on a topic close to my heart. And I want to do it again in the future.
For now, I shall reflect on the conference as a whole. My small contribution is just one of many experiences over the week. The people I met, talked, laughed, discussed with fed my imagination and re-ignited my desire to keep doing what I'm doing.
So, once I've arrived back home, caught up on lost sleep and touched base with my family, I'll come back and share more.
Bye for now.
For now, I shall reflect on the conference as a whole. My small contribution is just one of many experiences over the week. The people I met, talked, laughed, discussed with fed my imagination and re-ignited my desire to keep doing what I'm doing.
So, once I've arrived back home, caught up on lost sleep and touched base with my family, I'll come back and share more.
Bye for now.
Friday, 15 February 2013
The Choices We Make
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Out on a winter walk. |
Here are some observations in random, how-they-occur-to-me order:
- Busy people volunteer to work on a variety of projects
- Busy people tend to find a way to get things done
- Busy people tend to look pretty frazzled and tense a lot of the time
- Busy people suffer from an inability to focus on one thing at a time
- Busy people (in the ELT business) remain low paid
What do we busy people gain from taking on extra (often unpaid) work? As I include myself in this group of individuals who repeatedly agree to take on yet another role / action / task / job, I feel well-placed to offer an insight.
Answer: A sense of purpose. A sense of community and belonging. A degree of recognition from various quarters, most importantly a level of standing among our peers. A sense of satisfaction when something comes together and turns out well. (A sense of disappointment when not, but that's soon forgotten because there's the next project to get involved in...)
Particularly for those of us who work on a freelance basis, there can be a lack of community and camaraderie. We miss out on the chat at the water cooler, in the coffee breaks, after work drinks. It can be a lonely place, self-employment.
At the end of the day, we all have basic human needs ("Givens") which need to be met in order for us to be rounded, happy people. I've sketched a summary of the 9 "Human Givens" as developed by Griffin and Tyrell.
For me, the human givens I fulfill by keeping busy and agreeing to do more than I realistically have time for are:
- community
- attention
- connection
- achievement
- fun
- meaning
- status
If, however, I find myself loosing perspective, getting overly stressed out when things aren't coming together, or suffering sleep deprivation, I know it's time to stop and take stock. I need to ask myself: Which of my human givens are being neglected or short-changed?
- What about the connection I need with my family and friends?
- How far does the meaning my work hold for me meet my all-round life values and overall sense of meaning?
- How much fun am I really having when I'm so dog tired all the time?
- Am I getting enough quiet, "Me-Time" and privacy?
- How much control do I really have over my environment, projects and work?
Balance. It's all about balance, really. Isn't it.
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Winter Walk |
Friday, 12 October 2012
Slowing Down
This popped up on my FB timeline. Am assuming if it's posted there, I can share it here...
Just felt it to be so appropriate for so many of us busy, rushing-everywhere people today.
Just felt it to be so appropriate for so many of us busy, rushing-everywhere people today.
Make a Mistake - Discover New Opportunities
My walking commitment has been a bit wobbly for most of this week. I managed an impromptu stroll around a small park in Munich yesterday. And even managed a mad dash to the train station in the evening (apparently this forced sprint was good for me!!)
Apart from that, I have to admit to having failed miserably on Tuesday and Wednesday. No walking at all. Then today, I made the unforgivable mistake of mixing up the times of my lesson. Instead of 1pm, I should have been in the classroom at 8am...
What do I learn from this? Be more careful when adding appointments into my calender. But perhaps more importantly, don't overload the calender in the first place.
I had been worried that this week would be a struggle with back-to-back appointments, classes and meetings from Monday till Saturday. Now, however, I have some free time. A window of extra time to take stock and build up my energy for the last push of the week. I know how much better I'll feel for some fresh air because I got out for 40 mins on Monday. In contrast to the reluctant struggle up the hill on the last walk I did, Monday's walk was much more positive - maybe something to do with staying on the flat path - maybe due to the fact I just felt happier. Either way, it did me (as my mother would say) the world of good.
So, despite having missed a class by mistake I'm happy to be able to take advantage of some extra time and get myself out for a spot of fresh air and exercise. For me, an unexpected opportunity; for my students, an early start to the weekend.
Apart from that, I have to admit to having failed miserably on Tuesday and Wednesday. No walking at all. Then today, I made the unforgivable mistake of mixing up the times of my lesson. Instead of 1pm, I should have been in the classroom at 8am...
What do I learn from this? Be more careful when adding appointments into my calender. But perhaps more importantly, don't overload the calender in the first place.

So, despite having missed a class by mistake I'm happy to be able to take advantage of some extra time and get myself out for a spot of fresh air and exercise. For me, an unexpected opportunity; for my students, an early start to the weekend.
Sunday, 7 October 2012
But I don't feel like it today...
I did get out for my walk today. After 2 days without sticking to my new routine, I really didn't feel like it today either. In the interest of psycho-scientific research, I made myself trudge up the hill and complete a short round. On a decidedly cold day, I was wrapped up in hat, scarf and no small amount of negativity.
I'd like to say that after 10 minutes I was glad to have made the effort and I was benefiting from the fresh air. Instead, I was thinking how little time it takes to undo a fragile, newly developing habit. I shall have to start again from today.
As I write this, I'm feeling the knock-on effects of having been at my pc most of the day. The daily walk really is a very important thing, for both body and mind. Tomorrow is another day; I'll aim to get that walk in and manage it with a lighter, more willing heart.
I'd like to say that after 10 minutes I was glad to have made the effort and I was benefiting from the fresh air. Instead, I was thinking how little time it takes to undo a fragile, newly developing habit. I shall have to start again from today.
As I write this, I'm feeling the knock-on effects of having been at my pc most of the day. The daily walk really is a very important thing, for both body and mind. Tomorrow is another day; I'll aim to get that walk in and manage it with a lighter, more willing heart.
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